You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah cast ages: How old is the cast in real life?

You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah - BTS - (L to R) Ivory Baker as Megan Levy, Kasey Bella Suarez as Anya, Miya Cech as Kym Chang Cohen, Judd Goodstein as Aaron, Dylan Hoffman as Andy Goldfarb, Dean Scott Vazquez as Mateo, Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz, Director Sammi Cohen, Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman, Dylan Chloe Dash as Tara and Millie Thorpe as Nikki on the set of You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.
You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah - BTS - (L to R) Ivory Baker as Megan Levy, Kasey Bella Suarez as Anya, Miya Cech as Kym Chang Cohen, Judd Goodstein as Aaron, Dylan Hoffman as Andy Goldfarb, Dean Scott Vazquez as Mateo, Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz, Director Sammi Cohen, Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman, Dylan Chloe Dash as Tara and Millie Thorpe as Nikki on the set of You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.

Now that you’ve seen Netflix’s endearing new coming-of-age movie You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah, you’re likely eager to learn more about the film’s cast! Adam Sandler‘s daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler have shown they’re super talented. Sunny plays the film’s lead role, and she absolutely nails it.

The movie stars Sunny as Stacy Friedman, a 12-year-old girl on the cusp of turning 13 and eager to plan the best bat mitzvah ever alongside her best friend Lydia (Samantha Lorraine). But when a boy in their grade comes between them, could it mean the end of their friendship forever?

It’s always interesting to find out how old the real actors are playing teens on-screen, especially since Hollywood often casts grown adults to play young characters. Surprisingly, that wasn’t the case for this movie. The majority of the You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah cast is around the same age as their on-screen counterparts.

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah cast ages

So, how old are the main cast members in real life compared to their character’s ages? We’re starting off with the film’s lead character, Stacy Friedman, played by Sunny Sandler!

You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.
You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.

Sunny Sandler age

Sunny Sandler plays Stacy Friedman in the coming-of-age film. Stacy is 12 years old and on the verge of turning 13. Sunny isn’t much older than her on-screen character. She was born on November 2, 2008, and is currently 14.

You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Sadie Sandler as Ronnie Friedman in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.
You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Sadie Sandler as Ronnie Friedman in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.

Sadie Sandler age

Sadie Sandler plays Stacy’s older sister, Ronnie. In real life, Sadie is also about two years older than Sunny. She was born on May 6, 2006, and is currently 17 years old.

You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Dylan Chloe Dash as Tara, Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz and Millie Thorpe as Nikki in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.
You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Dylan Chloe Dash as Tara, Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz and Millie Thorpe as Nikki in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.

Samantha Lorraine age

Since the main plot of You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is about Stacy and Lydia planning their bat mitzvahs, we know that Lydia is around the same age as Stacy. Actress Samantha Lorraine is a little older than her on-screen bestie. Born on May 11, 2007, she is currently 16.

Dylan Hoffman age

Dylan Hoffman portrays Andy Goldfarb, the boy Lydia and Stacy end up fighting over. Andy is the same age as his peers and has his bar mitzvah during the movie, so he’s at least 13. Hoffman’s current age and birthdate are unknown, but he tends to play characters ages 13 to 17.

You Are S0 Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Dean Scott Vazquez as Mateo, Ivory Baker as Megan Levy and Kasey Bella Suarez as Anya in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.
You Are S0 Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Dean Scott Vazquez as Mateo, Ivory Baker as Megan Levy and Kasey Bella Suarez as Anya in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.

Dean Scott Vazquez age

Dean Scott Vazquez plays another one of Stacy and Lydia’s classmates, Mateo. Mateo is also friends with Andy and appears to have a crush on Stacy. Vazquez, who recently also starred in the new Transformers film Rise of the Beasts, was born on February 18, 2008, and is 15.

You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Kasey Bella Suarez as Anya, Ivory Baker as Megan Levy and Miya Cech as Kym Chang Cohen in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.
You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Kasey Bella Suarez as Anya, Ivory Baker as Megan Levy and Miya Cech as Kym Chang Cohen in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.

Miya Cezh age

Miya Cezh plays one of the trio of popular girls who often give Stacy and Lydia a hard time. Miya plays Kym Chang Cohen and her two friends are Anya (Kasey Bella Suarez) and Megan (Ivory Baker). Miya Cezh was born on March 4, 2007, and is 16 years old.

Zaara Kuttemperoor age

Zaara Kuttemperoor plays Ronnie’s friend Zaara in the movie. You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah marks Kuttemperoor’s first film role, so there isn’t much information about her available. Her birthday is unknown, but she generally plays characters within the 15-20 age range.

You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Adam Sandler as Danny Friedman and Idina Menzel as Bree Friedman in You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.
You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. (L to R) Adam Sandler as Danny Friedman and Idina Menzel as Bree Friedman in You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Scott Yamano/Netflix © 2023.

Idina Menzel age

Award-winning actress Idina Menzel plays Bree Friedman, wife of Danny Friedman and mother of Stacy and Ronnie Friedman. Menzel was born on May 30, 1971, and is 52 years old.

Adam Sandler age

Adam Sandler was born on September 9, 1966, and is 56 years old. He plays Danny Friedman in the movie and is the real father of Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Jackie Sandler as Gabi Rodriguez Katz in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.
You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Jackie Sandler as Gabi Rodriguez Katz in You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2023.

Jackie Sandler age

Jackie Sandler is married to Adam Sandler in real life, but in the movie, she plays Lydia’s mom, Gabi Rodriguez Katz. She is several years younger than her husband at 48 years old. Her birthday is September 24, 1974.

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is now streaming on Netflix.