Vanessa Papa (pronouns: she/her) is one of the most memorable castmates on The Ultimatum: Queer Love, though that might not be a good thing. With the first four episodes of the dating show now streaming, Vanessa has already become a controversial topic on social media.
Mild spoilers ahead.
After arriving on the show with her partner of over four years, Xander Boger, Vanessa made it clear that she’s unsure if monogamy is the best fit for her. She’s certainly getting the “villain edit” this season. But we’re only four episodes into the show, so it’s hard to be overly judgmental right now until we see how the rest of this season plays out.
Either way, Vanessa is sure to become a popular cast member by the end of this season, for better or worse (see Micah and Irina from the most recent season of Love is Blind). But just who is Vanessa Papa anyway? Here’s everything we know about her!
Vanessa Papa’s age
Vanessa’s birthday is currently unknown, but she is 30 years old, the same age as her partner. She and Xander first met as teenagers in high school but didn’t start dating until later.
Vanessa Papa’s height
Based on photos of the two of them together, Vanessa and Xander look to be around the same height, so somewhere around 5’6 or 5’8.
Vanessa Papa’s Instagram
If you’re interested in following Vanessa on Instagram, she’s available @itsvanessapapa. She’s pretty active on her page and regularly posts fun photos of herself out with friends or on various adventures. Vanessa also posts a lot of Pride content and has promoted The Ultimatum a bit, too.
Vanessa Papa’s job
It’s unclear what Vanessa does as a job, but she is currently living in Los Angeles.
Find out what will happen between Xander and Vanessa by watching The Ultimatum: Queer Love, now streaming on Netflix.